Happy Veteran’s Day!
Today is the day that we proudly honor our great Veterans who have served our country.
If you or anyone in your family have served in the military, police, or first responders,
I would like to say a huge Thank You so much for your service!
Your sacrifices help to keep our country free and preserve our sacred liberties…
Liberties that too many people take for granted.
If you haven’t served our country, today is a great day to show your appreciation for those who have.
So let us show our support for the brave men and women who have fought and protected us.
There are so many ways to show appreciation to our Veterans, and here are some ideas:
Maybe if we do a few of these things on a regular basis, we can begin to bring more light into the world and help cut down on the number of veteran suicides that are committed every day.
As a proud member of a military family (I also had Marine Corps and Navy training that I tremendously enjoyed), I take this mission personally.
Please take a moment to look around and see the beauty and gifts
in our world. I know this business can be challenging, but it’s so important to take the time to appreciate the things we have.
Thank you for being a part of my world, and thank you for allowing ME to serve YOU!!
Every week, I have the pleasure of mentoring some wonderful people who are in the process of mastering the art of real estate investing. We work on the basics of marketing, making offers, talking to sellers & buyers, deal structuring, how to write up contracts, etc.
Once the essential elements and techniques are understood, a game plan has been developed, and the student knows WHAT to do & HOW to do it, the only thing left to do at that point is to…TAKE ACTION!
And this is often where the problems occur. Taking action. Why is that part so hard for so many people?
Could it be that we’re afraid of the unknown? Or maybe because we think that we have to give up something we hold dear in order to be successful? Or perhaps it’s the fear of success itself that holds so many people back?
Whatever the case, I’ve noticed that it’s a real issue that truly stands in the way of potentially massive, life-changing experiences and success.
I think that one of the things that stops people from taking action is that they think they’re going to not be able to have fun anymore – or that the actions they need to take are not fun in and of themselves. Now that makes sense to me. Not because the actions they need to take aren’t fun (we’ll get to that in a minute), but because most people think these new income-producing activities aren’t fun.
So if you look at it that way, it makes sense, right? I mean, who wants to take on a new activity if they think it’s going to be painful? (unless you’re into that kind of thing lol)
Does that describe anyone you know? Maybe even someone you see when you look in the mirror? Do you think that the actions you need to take to be successful are going to suck or not be fun at all?
If that IS you, great! I have some wonderful news & some new strategies for you in this article, so keep reading! If that’s not you – if that’s not the reason you’re not taking action to reach your goals, sorry – we’ll have to get to that some other time.
In this article, we’re going to look a little closer at one of the most common activities that holds most people back: Picking up the phone and talking to SELLERS (or other people)! For some strange reason, a lot of people have challenges with this. They get all excited to do what needs to be done, then right before they need to pick up the phone, they get cold feet. All of a sudden, the phone looks like a 1,000-pound CACTUS! So how do we fix that?
The Secret to Making Calls Fun!
This is a LOT easier than you might think. First of all, let’s get your mindset straight, ok? The problem is that most people think that they either have to know everything before they call or that they’re afraid of the possibility of looking stupid. You don’t and you won’t, so don’t worry. Or if you do, so what? Just cross that name of your list & keep going!
The next part of having the proper mindset when making those phone calls is this – I’ll put it into ONE sentence for simplicity:
Have FUN making a new friend, asking questions, and probing for flexibility with what you can do for them.
Whether you’re cold calling someone for the first time, contacting them after they’ve been prescreened by your VA, or following up with them after a previous call, your role is actually quite simple. All you’re looking to do is simply see if this person is going to be a good fit for you to work together. Can they benefit from what you have to offer? Are they in the right position to receive your message? Are they at least curious about what you can do? If so, great! Keep talking to them. If not, move on.
Ninja Tip: Have a SCRIPT or STRUCTURE for the Call in Front of You.
You should definitely have a proven script to follow in front of you before each and every call. That way, you won’t have to guess or “wing it” when you talk. With this tool, you’ll be confident, feel more at ease, and drastically minimize your chances of screwing things up because you’ll have the layout of what’s needed right in front of you.
How Can a Simple, Cheap Kitchen Tool Help You Be More Efficient?
Here’s a little GAME you can play when you’re making calls. This makes it more fun…
Do this: Go on Amazon & order yourself a cheap little 3-Minute Egg Timer – the kind that has the sand in the hourglass. On every call, as soon as the person (seller) picks up, flip that sucker over so that the sand starts to run down. Make it your MISSION to find out if this person is even a POSSIBILITY to do business with, or if they’re just going to waste your time before the sand runs out.
You’ve got to get GOOD at finding this out as quickly as possible. That’s an essential skill, because NO ONE will suck the life out of you more than someone who’s not motivated, a pain in the backside, or ONLY wants all cash & full retail price. Once you find out that this is the case for them, immediately and politely get off the phone & call the next one on your list.
A VERY Common Problem (You are Not Alone)
It seems like there are a lot of people who are having a really hard time taking the action they need to take in order to have success. Based on my experience & observations, I theorized that a big reason for this is not just because of the inherent fears that people have, but also because many people seem to believe that the actions they need to take are going to be painful, or at the very least – not fun.
So if one of your biggest challenges is talking on the phone with sellers and other people, the first thing that needs to happen is to change your mindset before you even begin to make your calls.
Relax…I’ve got you covered! Right now, we’re going to finish up by learning some cool new tips on how to make taking the actions that you know you should be taking a lot more FUN! Ready? Ok, here we go…
Tip #1: Develop THICK SKIN
Psst! Come here…I have a little secret to share with you! Are you listening? Ok… Guess what? If you want to have SUCCESS in life/business, you’re going to face REJECTION…Constantly! Sorry, that’s the truth. Are you surprised? Guess what else?
GET OVER IT!!! I’ll give you 20 seconds, then move on. Got it? Good!
Seriously, what’s more important: That other person’s crap? Or your dreams, which will help your family, your community, and yourself? I think we know the answer.
Tip #2: Put On Your Big Boy (or Girl) Pants
That’s right. “If you want to run with the big dogs and pee in the tall grass, you’ve got to get off the porch.” Enough said.
Tip #3: Visualize Everything Working Out Perfectly
Have you ever stopped to think of what you imagine will happen with something before you even begin? One day not long ago, I did, and it shocked me to realize that I was sabotaging myself! How? Because I suddenly recognized that I was telling myself a bunch of stupid crap like, “Oh, they won’t be interested in that,” or “they won’t like what I have to say,” or “they probably won’t even pick up the phone when I call.”
The MOMENT I realized what was going on, I PUNCHED myself in the FACE! That’s called a ‘pattern interrupt,’ boys & girls! And if you’re subconsciously or consciously visualizing a negative outcome, CUT IT OUT – IMMEDIATELY! You’ve got to reprogram yourself to expect a positive outcome, no matter what. There’s something creepily cool that happens when you do this – you send out this positive vibe, and people pick up on it. Don’t believe me? Ok – Try it & see for yourself. Prepare to be amazed. IT WORKS!
Tip #4: Make Everything a GAME!
“Hey, want to play a game?!” Quick, what’s the first thing you think of when I ask you that question? Chances are, you’re curious about what it is, and you’re most likely instantly more receptive to having FUN, right? Exactly.
And that’s exactly what you should do when you have stuff to do that has to get done – make it FUN by making it a GAME!
For example, if you have 10 calls to make, make it a game by first estimating how long it will take to make all those calls, then see how close you came to your actual estimate when you’re all done.
Or challenge yourself to see how fast & accurately you can fill out an offer contract… or write a follow up email.
Like that? Ok, there’s one more in the next tip…
Tip #5: Develop a Great Sense of HUMOR!
Stop taking everything so freaking seriously. Life is short. Enjoy it. Yes, this includes finding or creating reasons to LAUGH – EVERY single day! Those are Doctor Tony’s orders. So look for stuff that you can laugh about. Learn some jokes. Watch the 3 Stooges, or even a political campaign commercial. Those things are hilarious! (Just stay the heck away from CNN)
Whenever you’re talking with a prospect, make it a little personal game/challenge to find out how quickly in the conversation you can get them to laugh at something! There’s real magic in humor. It eases the tension, relaxes barriers, and opens the lines of communication to flow a lot more freely. Plus, it just makes everything much more FUN! If you do this more often, I can practically guarantee you’ll have better results. Side benefits include laughing all the way to the bank. 😉
Listen, we’re all human beings. And we like to have FUN when we do stuff. If it’s not fun, why do it at all, right? Right. And that’s probably the reason why most people don’t do stuff – because they don’t see it as fun. They see it as boring; painful; difficult; or just sucking overall. And who likes doing that kind of stuff? But when you find/create a way to make doing those sucky things actually fun, you’re much more likely to get it done. Make sense?
As the late, great Dr. Wayne Dyer said, “When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” Right on, Wayne!
So now you know some of the secrets on how to make taking action more FUN. Please put these tips into use as often as possible, and you’re surely going to have more success, make more money, and be a much happier & healthier person in the process.
Plus, you’ll be a lot nicer to be around… even when you’re alone. 😉
Until Next Time,
Today is the day!
Exactly 243 years ago on this day, 56 incredibly brave men sat down to sign one of the most powerful documents to ever be signed here in America – the Declaration of Independence.
That’s something we all (hopefully) learned in our history classes or required education to become a U.S. Citizen.
But what was often left out of our education was what those brave men RISKED to sign that document.
Their fortunes. Their freedom. And in a few cases, their lives.
Every single man who signed the Declaration of Independence KNEW what they were risking, and what was at stake for them.
But they did it anyway. Why? Because they knew what mattered more than anything: Our precious FREEDOM, and our independence from the King of England, who clearly did NOT understand nor care about what we were all about here in the new colonies.
It’s that great spirit that still defines us TODAY, despite what some people in our own country are trying to do to take it away from us and steer us in another, sinister direction. But that’s a conversation for another day. 🙂
Today, we celebrate our great nation’s birthday as a free & independent nation…The greatest in the world!
I’m about to go to a cookout, then head to downtown DC tonight to watch the end of the parade & see the amazing fireworks that are lined up. I did this last year, too. Should be incredible!
Whatever you do today, I hope you enjoy it. Please take a few moments to stop & appreciate the incredible blessings we have in our lives. Speaking of which, I appreciate YOU!
Finally, if you don’t mind, I’d like to share a little more American history with you.
In case you’ve never heard this or aren’t familiar with it, please take just 11 minutes & 38 seconds to listen to this powerful story of how Francis Scott Key wrote our National Anthem, and under what conditions it was composed. This is something you MUST hear!
The powerful & moving Story of the Star-Spangled Banner, aka our National Anthem.
Please leave your comments & thoughts below!